Christian Words of Encouragement - Do You Need Them?

Life can be hard. You know Jesus has saved you and is working in you, but what about the practical side of living the victorious life day to day? For example, as a Christian are you perplexed as to why you experience so much fear with all you know about the delivering power of Christ? Are you in the midst of a trial and just want to be reminded that you are not alone? Are you seeking encouragement to help you get out of bed in the morning and "do life" another day? Are you afraid you do not have the strength to persevere?

Don't worry, you are not alone! These are all real issues for all followers of Christ. We are all basically the same inside and have the same hurts, fears, and challenges...and we were never meant to fight the struggles of life on our own. Sometimes when our own faith seems weak, we need to "borrow" the faith of another person who has come through our struggles and has seen the Lord's faithfulness.

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It is important that we do not isolate ourselves from other trusted Christians. There will most likely be times of discouragement for all of us, and we need a Christian brother or sister to speak to us those precious words of Christian encouragement. If you are especially isolated for some reason, consider some careful searching on the Internet to find the Christian encouragement and fellowship you need at any time of the day or night.

Each of us can move toward more spiritual freedom and joy as we share Christian words of encouragement with each other. Often the insight of a fellow follower of Jesus will be just the nugget of truth we need on a given day. And we are reminded we are not alone.

Christian Words of Encouragement - Do You Need Them?

How to Cope As a Caregiver: Words of Encouragement and Compassion

How far you go in life depends on your being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving and tolerant of the weak and strong. Because someday in your life you will have been all of these. ~George Washington Carver

You should realize that the articles I write are often printed in blood, so to speak. Today's is no exception. I need my own advice. Let me explain...

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I lost it; I really lost it this morning. Uncontrollable tears. Piles of tissues. I just couldn't get myself under control. The stress of being an end-time caregiver was taking its toll. I tried to keep myself together for my husband's benefit. This morning, it didn't work.

Being a caregiver is possibly the most stressful, difficult position a person can fill. As we try to function in love and compassion, we also must cope with the negative emotions: guilt, anger, resentment, fear and grief. Not to mention extreme fatigue. All while providing the level of care that a loved one needs.

Now, on to my story. Since I'm being honest, I have to admit that sometimes I don't follow my own advice. Sometimes, life gets to me and I lose it, too.

I guess what I'm trying to tell you is that you - and I - won't always get it right. But... we can keep trying.
I'm much better this evening - my emotions are under control again. I'm back in caregiver mode. Our patient has pulled back from the brink - again - and so we continue. Meals, meds, compassionate care. I'm back to what matters most: giving not selfishness, love not resentment, peace not turmoil.

The role of caregiver is challenging, frustrating and rewarding moment-by-moment. I'm sure that Jesus must have said, 'blessed are the caregivers for they shall find strength'. I know that was true with my mom almost a decade ago. I know, deep down, that it's true now. No matter what, we find the inner resources - and sometimes, just sheer grit - to keep going, to take care of what matters most.

It's hard for our minds to relax and simply attend the present moment. We anticipate, regret, wonder (when, if, why) and dread. It's all those emotions that cause the most pain and anguish, not misfortune itself. When the moment comes - whatever our 'moment' is - we are often better able to deal with it than we anticipated.

So, no matter what you face this week, remember that you can cope. You're stronger than you think you are. And you can get back up and keep trying. There are no innings in this game of Life. Just keep swinging until you win! God has declared you victorious - no matter what you're dealing with. Remember, He and I pray for your peace, joy, blessing and strength to overcome whatever challenges you.

Don't anticipate grief. Stay in the moment. Enjoy the time you have. Talk, Laugh. Be. Sleep well (when you can!), knowing that you are giving the most precious gift of all - yourself.

How to Cope As a Caregiver: Words of Encouragement and Compassion